Parents have duty to care and bring up their children. If the children are spoiled all blame the parents.
There is divineness within a person. This holiness has to be cared like a parent cares his child. It needs constant attention, care and so on. This means one has to take care of oneself. Caring oneself is caring the God within the person.
The God within has gift of God. It is our duty to care and nurture it to its completion. There comes our spiritual success.